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Cats that have been abused can appear maimed
or damaged physically. Some may appear to be in
perfect shape because the damage they
sustained may be internal or emotional.
Even though physical
damage is bad, emotional damage is much harder to fix. Cats who
have suffered physical abuse may still answer to a soft touch and soft
voice, if they believe the abuse has come to an end.
When you working with a cat that has been emotionally abused, it
is best to wait until the cat comes to you. This may take
a lot of patience, as the cat is likely to be confused and
uncertain of your motivations.
If you take your time and let the cat know that
you are nothing to fear, he will eventually come to you. When he
does, remain calm and quiet. Let him conduct his
inspection, and watch him for clues as to how comfortable he is
with you.
Given time, the cat will learn that he can trust you.
It is really a matter of observing the cat and avoiding things
that upset or distress him. Remember, the cat has been
traumatized, and it requires much time to recover from emotional
trauma.
Cats that have become lethargic won’t play, take treats, or
respond to much of anything. The
ideal way to get a lethargic cat to respond is to bring in a companion cat.
Over time, a lethargic cat will eventually look for attention,
normally a scratch or a pat. When this happens, use a soft voice and
tell him what a good kitty he is. Pet him in his favorite
way and snuggle with him.
Take it slow and easy with a lethargic cat, as he is
still traumatized. He will slowly return to his normal self,
but keep in
mind that it may take some time.
An angry or mean cat will either scratch you
or fight with you, or run away from you. With a cat that
has become mean,
the best thing to do is use gentle treatment and a soft voice.
Avoid raising your voice or using strict discipline.
It is likely to upset the cat and make him meaner. Never attempt to trap the
cat either, as this is almost certain to upset him.
If you
take your time and let the cat know that you are there for him,
he will eventually calm down. Use slow movements and
always let him inspect you before you try to touch him. It
may take some time before the cat realizes he is safe and loved
again.
Abused cats are truly a sad thing. Abused cats need a loving home and
a caring owner who can take the time they
need and deserve. If you have taken in an abused
cat, remember to be as gentle as you possibly can, and that time
and consistency on your part will help the kitty get better.
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